Hi! This is Francisco Bujan from vitalcoaching.com and we are talking about dating successful women. The topic for this video is: If your grandma could wear this, do not buy it? Okay, maybe you have a very good grandma, right. With very young, good dresses very young.
This is an advice would be on how to look sexy and how not create too much of a conservative look when you go out. I often get this kind of question and I often see women making very keen mistakes in the way they dress because they will go out and the way they are going to dress is going to send out the wrong message, not being really attractive.
And the key question that you can ask yourself, really:
When you are out there shopping, does this look young or not? Does this look fresh?
Does this look attractive or not?
When you are going to buy it?
And if your grandma could wear this?
Honestly, do not buy it unless you have a very good grandma, again. Unless, you have a grandma who dresses really young and attractive. But otherwise, the advice is keep it fresh, keep it young, keep it sporty, keep it a fresh look. Do not buy stuff which is too conservative otherwise it kills the sexiness or the attraction, really.
You have to realize that guys really are attracted to you if you look sexy. If you look fresh. If you look happy. You know, gray colors, brown colors, I mean unless it is really within the fashion but there are a set of clothing that are going to make you really look sexy and attractive.
And when you go out shopping, the goals is to, if you are not already naturally sexy and expressing that. The goal is to stretch a little bit of your comfort zone and go for something which is a bit more challenging even for you to wear and you will notice that guys are attracted to that like magnets.
So, again, if it makes you look a little bit older, or formal, or these kind of things I would say it is fine in the conservative context. But if you want to play the game within the dating scene. If you want to really feel attractive, to feel pretty and fresh, then the best is to go for something that makes you look your age, really.
Do not buy something which is going to make you look much older than you are. This goes for shoes, it goes for dresses. If you buy a skirt, if you buy a dress, wear something that makes you look young and if you wear it and if you put it on, and you think, well actually; yes, my grandma would wear something like that. That is very simple. Do not buy it.
It is a very simple trick. So, remember and to keep you in track for looking attractive and be sexy. I hope this makes sense. You take care and have a great day. Bye, bye.
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