Is My Penis Too Big To Fit?

Dan: Oh, for life. Okay. Jennifer: You want me to answer this one. Dan: Oh, I want you to answer it for sure. See, this has come a problem that a lot of guys wished they had, right, at least at first, penis too big to fit. Dear Dan and Jennifer, my girlfriend and I have been together for about two years. Even though we take the time to make sure she is really excited and even used toys to help. Even though she is fully stretched, I still end up hurting her when we do it. And it kind of kills the enjoyment, kills the moment. I can see that. How can we make it not hurt her? And not kill the moment? Jennifer: Okay, so my first thought when I heard this was like a vaginal dilator, don’t ask me why that’s the first thing that came to my mind, it didn’t probably because it was fully stretch, just a comment, right. Dan: So, we’re assuming that he is not just really hunk and really large, that’s not the problem. We’re assuming that— Jennifer: You know, my next thought was, you know, what kind of vaginal dilators are there, so you know, maybe I can Google it right. Dan: We're looking it up. Jennifer: But then I came across a term that I’ve never heard of before called vaginismus. Dan: Oh, that sounds like fun. Jennifer: It’s weird. And it’s kind of like this uncontrollable clamping down of your vaginal muscles. Dan: Like glue lock but different. Jennifer: Yeah, kind of like glue lock but different so—you know, that was one option and dilators can help and I found a website, its called vaginismus.com, I’m going to spell it for you because its kind of weird, V A G I N I S M U S (dot) com. Dan: How else would you spell that? Jennifer: I don’t know, but that’s how its spelled, vaginismus.com if you want to know more about that issue. Otherwise, and you know, go to a doctor, both of you go to her doctor together and find out what's going on, okay. Dan: That’s what I do. Jennifer: Hurting is not necessarily normal. Dan: Typically when you feel pain, your body is trying to tell you something. So a lot of people are—okay, this is the deal, a lot of people are so shy by talking to a doctor about, you know, if something hurts that its any way related to a sexual organ or mainly related to sex, they don’t want to talk to their doctor about it. Who else? I mean, who else is going to know if it’s supposed to be hurting or not. And its probably not suppose to be hurting. If in doubt, go see your doctor. You know, if your squeaks and makes a funny noise and a rattle, or whatever, you take it to your mechanic, right, and your like, dude, it squeaks. It ain’t to be squeaking, right. But some people, you know, a doctor is a people mechanic. You know and its wonderful that we have them but if you feel—if your concern is this whole societal shame about sex which is silly but if you feel any vaginal issue talking to your doctors, just take a second and think, instead back, and think look, this is a mechanic for my body and his job, he’s spent how many years in medical school so that he can help you or she can help you. Jennifer: Or show us to talk to you about these things, okay. Dan: Exactly. You know, and if you're not comfortable talking to your doctor, maybe you need a different doctor. Jennifer: Find one that you are comfortable talking to. Dan: Absolutely but you know, don’t get stuck on that. Jennifer: Go, talk, I got on this one. Dan: So, what are you guys thinking? Any other suggestions? We always want to know what you think. I mean, we’re all just real people wanting to help one another. Jennifer: If you guys have this problem— Dan: Or what's it about? Jennifer: Yeah! And how did you overcome it? Dan: Have a story that might help whatever. Leave a comment. We want to know.