Jennifer Hi, this question is from Steven of Alberta.
Dear Dan and Jennifer,
I am seeing a girl who left her marriage a year ago, and then immediately got into another one year relationship following the breakup of her marriage. And then two weeks after the breakup of that relationship, I started seeing her.
And things are actually going very well or we are going well. We had discussion about how we were spending a lot of time together and she said that she made a promise to herself that she was not going to jump into a serious relationship right away.
I took this to mean she wants to play the field and not see me. What do you think?
Dan Perhaps, she means what she said.
Jennifer Perhaps! Yes, I mean maybe, you can read between the lines and maybe that is what she means but it is also possible that she just got out in a too serious back to back relationship since she needs time to herself, you know. To figure out what she wants. Time to get over the emotional issues of those relationships, and just time to recover to take a breath
But you know, either way, the choice is hers. And my best if I just respect her opinion, and give her the space that she needs because if you chase after her, she is able to run away. Whereas if you give her the space then she will come to you
Dan Yes, that is the option.
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