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Jennifer: Our question is from Brian in Oklahoma, dear Dan and Jennifer, I am very good when it comes to knowing someone’s strength and weaknesses that work playing sport, habits, tendencies etcetera, but when it comes to meeting women it is a different story. For example if I go to a club, how do I know which women are straight, bisexual or lesbian? What are the signs? When we are walking around in the club and you see them pass by several times, is it their way of checking you out? And what are your thoughts on dating strippers? Is there a way I can incorporate sculling into meeting women?
Dan: Where did that one come from?
Jennifer: I am going to hold on to this, I am going to refer back to it.
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Dan: Where did the last part come from? Okay, step back, you do not work up to a girl and say, gee I wonder if she is straight or bisexual or stripper, save that for late pal, I mean no, really.
Jennifer: And you do not walk up to a girl like, do you like me?
Dan: No, no really, whether or not a girl likes you, something that you just feel, you inherently know, you inherently feel it, just be open to it.
Jennifer: Trust yourself.
Dan: And perhaps more interaction of the women is actually in order, maybe make some friends that are girls so you are more comfortable but no, I think that is a great strategy, just beware of how women generally act and react, interact to people. But you know, you watch your body language, if you want to really break it down to details, watch her body language, she is walking back and forth and back and forth again, what are you wondering at?
Jennifer: Is she looking at you and she is walking back and forth or is she going to the bathroom?
Dan: Or she is doing everything she can to dodge your look and to dodge you, prolong the repeated eye contact, conversation when you talk with her, does she try to get away or does she answer you?
Jennifer: Yes, is she really in cord listening to you talk or is she leaning back with her arms crossed? You know, I mean there is a lot of really good books and I am sorry if I am mocking everything up like my apple spit, there is one who really get books and stuff on body language and how to interpret things like that. So I recommend reading one.
Dan: But all those together, you just feel, if you just pay attention to your self and just pay attention to what you feel for those around, you will know if she likes you. That heat, that chemistry, you feel it.
Jennifer: And the two sense on how do you know whether the signs if somebody is gay, straight, bi, lesbian? In your dreams, a woman is all three okay? Every guys fantasy you know, she is all three but the fact is that you know we do not wear science around our neck, we do not say, “Hey, I am a lesbian.”
Dan: Available, ding, ding, ding.
Jennifer: I am available, I just broke up with my boyfriend, okay, you just have to watch her body language for those kind of science.
Dan: Something else to keep in mind, do not be afraid of rejection, right, because a lot of guys are be like, “I do not want to walk up there, because what if she does not like me?” Look, it is not you, okay? First of all any given time, any woman, 70 percent a woman probably not interested in you from one reason or another, she maybe gay okay, but she maybe just lost her job, she may actually be attached to someone that she likes. For what ever hundreds of reason she made just not want to go out with you.
Jennifer: Or any body else.
Dan: Or any body else exactly. But you know, do not set worry about that.
Jennifer: Yes, no is not an evil word okay, if anything practice asking women questions that you know they are going to say no to so that you can get use hearing it.
Dan: Practical think of it is not right now.
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Jennifer: That is Dan.
Dan: Okay, now the stripper angle where did that come from? I am sorry, I personally do not like paying for it but hey you know not they are own with it to each is own but get out, get a date, meet some girls that you are not paying for and they would be healthy for you
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