Know the Difference Between Love, Being in Love, Infatuation and Lust
Hi how you do? I am doing a response to Aimee here today gone tomorrow video about love. Hey Aimee I am wearing PJ’s I know you will going to love Deejays sponge bob Deejaysand I like to see that sponge bob got it for a Christmas like asking for two of them? I never really wear them together, I never really wear them you know but it did not [Muffled]. The other things that I have learned is that there are a lot of different things like go around asking themselves, ask love and it is not really love that to me four different stages though “love”. There is love, there is lust, there is infatuation and then there is being in love which are all different things to me some are similar to the others but definitely different. The thing for me about love is that love most of the time is very general, it really has to do with viscosity which basically you know means that you love someone because they love you family, you know friends “oh I love you girl” you know ‘I love you mom” you love them because they love you. When you say I love you in those cases it is pretty much just an advance form of appreciation that is all. I appreciate you, I am glad you are here. I am glad that you are in my life. Romantic love though when you say I love you but you have not said that I am in love with and you think in its romantic situation. Most of the time for me that seems more like infatuation.
Infatuation is the stage where you really do think that you are in love or that you love the person but it is really not. If there is someone being in love because its like you cannot get enough with the person everything about them just you know just invigorates you and you are just like oh my gosh you know wow you are constantly looking forward to talking to them to seeing them. You cannot get enough of them and those are things that would made me think that I am in love right? But the thing about infatuation is that most of the time the key element that are missing is fluidity and clarity. Most of the time it does not necessarily flow right there you know a lot of bumps in there to just kind of turn you the wrong way. A lot of things do not make sense to you most of the time the fact that you love them or you think you love them does not make sense to you. When you say, man I just do not know why I love him so much. That is not being in love, when you are in love you know why you love them and so a lot of time when you are infatuated with someone it is just like you cannot describe it. You cannot put your finger on what it is. A lot of time they are missing some of like several different standards that you might have like a lot of women we decide long time ago what we want in out husbands and or whatever what we would like. And so a lot of times when you are infatuated you got a man that is like that maybe three or five or three and a half maybe and I mean I was in that situation, I was infatuated could not even put my finger on him. But when you are confused about it and you are questioning it a lot it does not make sense you know? It is not right then there is lust and lust that person may actually have, then they will have most of your standards except for maybe one or two very important ones. But you over look them because everything else will line up. They will be extremely physically attracted to you and then also mentally to you, they are so cool they are so down to earth, everything about them is just great. It is not emotional though, you do not really when you think about that person you would not cry if they left you but it is hard to let them go. I mean in a situation like that I mean if this dude look like Blair Underwood, so sexy, dreads and you know I love dread just great guy. I mean owned his own home, extremely mature, he had a son that was like 18 months or whatever. But I over looked that because he was fine. And he was really cool, we could talk and we could debate because I love to talk, I love to have discussions, debates, sometimes arguments. Not really but anyway, and he would not get all offended, he would not get upset he was very op