Male Speaker1: We have got some very key terms girls that you should avoid at all costs and basic things like thermometers, mucous consistency.
Male Speaker2: Modulation windows.
Male Speaker1: Modulation windows. Girls love to talk about their mucous levels being spot on, they love to talk about, there is a fire in the hall, the eggs are ready to go all these sorts of things.
Male Speaker2: Here is the point, don't talk about it.
Male Speaker1: Just don't because that is as unsexy as it comes, once again it comes back down to he is expected to perform. There is a small window of opportunity and he is got to deal on the job, which one of them make him feel like a prize state not a prize goat. So girls when you are thinking those terms, don't mention them, check you temperature, check your mucous.
Male Speaker2: As simple as that.
Male Speaker1: That's it, normal that's it. Lingerie, now we put some prices on some sorts in our skills what I think about spotting things up on buying lingerie and sure for some guys, they do not particular fast all the way. But I think, there is nothing like a new set of undies.
Male Speaker2: Well, if for you, the lingerie works for me now, no undies at all is something that works beautifully.
Male Speaker1: Undies on the floor.
Male Speaker2: Yeah, yeah.
Male Speaker1: But still has to know -- the little eggs got out.
Male Speaker2: They feel bad, they feel bad.
Male Speaker1: I think big point for a lot of couples is when you trying to get pregnant if you think to get it quite sometime, there is a very good chance that the frequency with which you are having sex has gone from a lot when you started out.
Male Speaker2: It's not uncommon
Male Speaker1: To not a lot and now you need to spice things up a little bit, get him interested and we don't want him to think that you are treating him like James Bond just because you want him to inseminate and that's what I am saying it, is over the course of the month, you need to be doing different things at different times not just on those straight days when you are ovulating as an enticement to have sex. He needs to feel that you want to be with him and that he is having sex with you because you want to be together not just for sex.
Male Speaker2: That is a good, it is really good point.
Male Speaker1: The next one is a little bit contentious.
Male Speaker2: Look, this was something that Sam wrote down and look I think it does certainly have potential, but it is the girls who -- well I don't know how to say this -- play with themselves.
Male Speaker1: Oh I guess what comes under this is that once a guy knows that he is supposed to be having sex for the purposes of making babies, I guarantee there is a pretty good chance that he is going to come up with an excuse, we'll do tomorrow or too many bees or whatever. So the key here is that he may knock himself back, doesn't mean you have to knock yourself back, and no man like to miss out on the party.
Male Speaker2: Correct. I challenge any guy out there to knock back their partner in this situation.
Male Speaker1: Girls kind of think that.
Male Speaker2: Yeah, possibly it will be contentious but something that I think is a winner.
Male Speaker1: This one follows on nicely, point seven, when you are in the window and even though we are trying to put -- you are trying to have sex two or three times a day. Now if you can get a snacky one away which he does not even consider as two or three. He doesn't really realize what's going on. I think that a tap on the shoulder or in the nether regions very, very early in the morning or in the middle of the night.
Male Speaker2: Say what are you saying take advantage your man.
Male Speaker1: Correct.
Male Speaker2: When he is at his diabetes.
Male Speaker1: Diabetes.
Male Speaker2: Correct.
Male Speaker1: Hopefully, he will have sex with you when you are asleep, it will be a lot more pleasure, for you, he won't even count it and you might still be able to get two or three by the next time.
Male Speaker2: So midnight or middle of the morning tap on the shoulder.
Male Speaker1: Pretty much.
Male Speaker2: Yeah, okay.
Male Speaker1: I think that can really work and I think our last point here is I think a lot women forget that when you are being inseminated, you are obviously asking your man to have an orgasm. Now if your partner was demanding that you had an orgasm every time you had sex for a particular period, you might find it a. not particularly sexy or b. that it might inhibit you from actually having sex. So I think you have got to give the fellow little bit a lay way and understand that not every time that you have sex, easy guid of orgasm.
Now that's a bit of -- I think most people think when guys have sex, they always do, but as we have said this is a tectonic shift in your man's -- in his head and things are going to be going little screwing in there.
Male Speaker2: That's exactly right. So you have got these issues that are in your head as of yet, the likelihood that he is going to produce every single time reduces.
Male Speaker1: So be easy on him and be a little bit understanding and as I say, if you take away that pressure, if you take away that this is damn day, I think you won't have a problem on that. But if he do slip up and he does know that he is physically trying to inseminate, you just understand, that could be an issue.
Well I think that's it. I think we go to a little pin out. Girls we would love to know what do you think. Drop us a line at info@beingdadusa.com and there will be link after this to our BlogPress, so you can print this off and have a little think about it and yeah just let us know.
Male Speaker2: Thanks for watching.
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