Hi this is Francisco Bujan from vitalcoaching.com. And we are talking about break ups for men. I am the author of how to get your power back after she breaks up. This is a new book and the series of audios, which has been online already for five years and I sold already thousands of copies on that helping guys in break up situations and in divorce situations.
Now what I want to tell you about today is about if you are in divorce situation. If you are not just breaking up, not just taking distance from your girlfriend or wife but you are really divorce. This is a whole set of dynamics that involves, what we could call emotional divorce and legal divorce at the same time. So it is very important to understand the dynamics so that you are really go and get your power back.
Now the reason why I am telling you this is because I do believe that when you are in the divorce situation or in your break up situation you need a set of strategies. You need really battle plan to win that. If you simply engage into the battle without any forms, strategy or with our any form of idea of the changes, then very often you are going to get this very hard. And the truth, there is truth is that there is no many systems out there. It is not like you learn these strategies at school. Once you are face with the horse, you have to you know face the facts. Attack them tackle them and deal with them when you are facing them. And very often what you miss is simply a battle plan. So this is what I want to share with. Of curse in these five-minute videos, I am just going to tell you a couple of facts. It is not enough to give you the whole set of strategies. You have to go back on vitalcoaching.com in the site that it will give you the moment to get the full spectrum of strategies. Honestly, there is habit pages ebook. There is a set of audios. I am adding now videos, articles and it is really a whole system that you can use to really fight this battle and win.
Now, when it comes to divorce meaning, you have to realize that you have the emotional divorce and the legal divorce. Even if you manage to actually, you go through the legal divorce, I think when you split from your wife, and you buy assets in a harmonious way. Once you do that, there is still the whole emotional side and this is the acquired that when you are with a divorce situation, you can go to therapy, you can do these things but there are not that many resources that teach you how to do that. And this is exactly what I am here to help you with. It is the emotional side of course, the legal side. You will need a lawyer for that or a mediator I would really ask you to find a mediator. But for the emotional side, you need really a battle plan, which is really targeted to that part. Because once you actually split assets, once you actually leave in a different location from your wife then there is still old emotional processing that you need to go trough and understand really how to get your life back. So that you will know it and at being this divorce on break up for very long. The main mistake that you can do is simply sit back and wait. If you sit back and wait simply for the pain to go away, most of the times you will going to be there two years or three years from now. And there is still going to be this resentment, all this undigested emotions about what is going on right now.
So what I want to tell you is that there is a way to go through that much, much faster. You do not have to stay in the break up or the divorce for years really. It is not needed, not even months. I honestly believe that once you deal with the legal aspect of your divorce, you can get back your power with in 30 days. That is the target and that is the frame. We can took within 30 days to build yourself a mind set or battle vehicle which is going to help you really go from you know being a divorce and embracing your future and realizing it. There is a bright future ahead and my life is not over it is just an aspect. It is a relationship, which can to men, but there is bright future ahead of me.
So what I want you to do is very simple, go back to vitalcoaching.com right now. The link is Vitacoaching.com/breakup for men.htm. I repeat Vitacoaching.com/breakup for men.htm and break up for men is just in one word. You go there you get this emotional straightaway and my advice from time to time, you will base on what happened next week. If you are a woman, go there go to the site as well there is a link for you. Okay take care for now and have a great day. Bye-bye.
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