Hi, this is Francisco Betchian from Vitalcoachin.com. What we want to do now is simple ask for a few question that was posted to all my channel and it has to do with me. It has to do with why coach and what is my life experience. You know that I coach guys and women on break up situation and many man or many women did ask me will do you coach on this topic because you went your self through a very difficult and challenging divorce or as break ups and the answers is I have a few long term relationships. I had a few break ups that we are not too devastating so I survive them quite okay. And the reason of why I coach is not because of my own life experience okay.
The reason why I coach is because I have trained as I have coach that is my profession. I do not do just that as hobby or for fun it is we need because I am trained to that. That is my profession that is the first thing to realized and yes I do coach in many topic or many topics where I have a little bit of life experience but maybe the experience that is are actually going through are not the experience that they had my self and my life okay.
Some the things I coach on are not things that I have been experiencing my self within the same understand or the same depth as what you are going through. You have to understand that with coaching sometimes yes, sometimes you had, I had to make our experiences as you but sometimes I will look at it from the external prospect and simply give you fresh to speak this strategies on how to live with that specific situation.
Take for instance the doctor or a surgeon, to help you with this specific sickness with the surgeon or the doctor does not need to have had the same sickness or same problem, right. Or if you take your car to a mechanics you will be able to he will be able to fix your car with that maybe having had the same challenge on his/her car. That is the way you can look at, it means that when I coach you the reason why I can not coach you because of my life experience. But the love has to do with the fact that having trained to do what I do.
I have been trained as a professional coach I full load a training with the training coach training school that is one element. Another element, which is very important for you to understand is that I have the hundred of hours of coaching experience one on one with client. And lots of this thing to she is that I try share with you as try she needs we did loved together with my coaching time over one on one sessions over a short period of time. For instance in what concerns the break up for man situations I have been coaching dozens of guys of this specific topic. The same with women, then same with dating, successful woman are for guys you this kind of relationship challenges I coach also on spiritual topics and the other topics that I did advice on my channel.
So, this is the thing so realize the reason why I coach you, the reason why I think that I can help you with the challenges that you are facing is because I have certain a month or experience with helping people in this kind of situations. That is make the reason. My own life experience of course matters it counts, but it is all your some of fractions of what are use you when I am putting you on specific topics. Something else that you have to know it is that I have function with the very clear code of ethics. When I get you into coaching I have agree with the certain set of guidelines, or my sets or values, and I respect that at all times.
The first value that I have apply very consciously is that when I coach you, I mean, when you sign up for coaching when we are really within the coaching relationship one-on-one then I respectfully for confidentiality it means that everything that you tell me would not be shared further with anybody. That is one thing to all to know.
And other one is respect. I would not judge what your saying is or what you do. My rule is not to judge you, my rule is to help you reach your target and goals so I am putting agent as aside and look at you situation your life and your prospective and help you takes that so that you reach what you want to reach.
This are just two examples of the guidelines or the my code of ethics but there is much more on that on my side you can go and check it go back to vitalcoaching.com and you will see that there is a under the coaching section there is an article or page which describes my values and code of ethics. So you can go and check it over there throughout.
There is I want to say about that but that is want to give you a few hints or let you understand a little bit more how I function. Something else to understand it or to know also about me is that I have my own set of charges and as a moment I came across this certain sense of empower or core base in life and that is place from where I functions, from where I coach you, right. I can tell you more about this in the video maybe, but I want you to know that the reason why coaches because after a while of exploring my own mind and my own life I feel like a rich displace of power and much tricky from where I could help others. Okay be careful, I hope you enjoy. Bye-bye.
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