Audra Lowe: Okay, I got a question for you what won't happen if the guy that you were dating wanted to see other people. Well depends on who you ask so we went to relationship experts Tamsen Fidel and Matt Titus for some advice.
Tamsen: Hey, everybody Matt and Tamsen here answers your questions about love, sex, dating and relationship. Okay, say the first question I met this guy and we're having a great first date until they told me was dating a couple of women in just wanted to have fun. He's seen–we seem to really click and I'd like to see him again I think he might be player why should I do?
Matt: You know I love this guy this guy is honest, he's forthright, and he's letting the woman know exactly what the situation is nothing worst than a guy that doesn't really tell you what's going on in his head. He's laid it all out this is the perfect situation for the girl. She shouldn't be scared of what, what is it with you guys. You were always worried about being played or player.
Tamsen: A girl doesn’t want to hear this, a girl wants to here “Well, I'm here for you and its all about you” not like “Hey, tomorrow night , I might with a blonde and then the next night I might with you know a brunette” that’s a problem.
Matt: That she should be date, that she should be dating another girl.
Tamsen: All right so—
Matt: I mean guys aren't like that come on.
Tamsen: No, I agree that you should be worrying about you know your future before you, you know order your salad. But at the same time I think you have, I think you have to play carefully he's being really honest he might be a player or it might be just dating.
Matt: Excuse me players aren't honest they're deceitful they don’t tell women exactly.
Tamsen: I love you on the first date.
Matt: What their status is this guy, I think might go out with this guy. I love this man.
Tamsen: All right, so what are we going to tell her?
Matt: I think you should be patient, not be patient I think you've go it, move forward. Go out with this kind of second day you know where he stands he seems like he's powerful strong and honest and this might be Mr. Right remember women love ex players. Women love men that still have that passion and that kind charm.
Tamsen: They're still bad boys.
Matt: Still bad body but they're not going to get hurt this might be your guy.
Tamsen: Okay, but one word of caution and this is you this something to be aware off. He is dating other people that don't get you know don't find yourself falling too hard too fast because. If she does that she can really get hurt.
Matt: Of course she can get hurt but honestly just be very careful.
Tamsen: This is Matt and Tamsen answering your questions about love, sex, dating and relationships until next time.
Audra Lowe: I love those two and for more great relationship tips for Matt and Tamsen and you can logged to BetterTV.com and we’ll have a link there, we’ll be right back.
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