Hey everybody. It’s Alex here from SucceedAtDating.com and I want to share with you a very quick story. About a half, an hour I jus returned from dinner with a friend of mine and the time now is 7 o’clock pm. And this is kind of like a spur of the moment video because I really want to share with you the story.
I was telling my friend of mine a story that when I was eighteen or nineteen years old how I went about meeting women and how I could actually not go out as much and I get more results. Because basically, when I was around eighteen years old I would go out around, three, six, sometimes seven times a week. And on top of that I went have during the days want to meet women. And by the end of the week, I was reaching burn out where I didn’t have the energy. I didn’t have the motivation. I had sleeping problems. I didn’t really have any kind of anything left to actually go on a date with these beautiful girls. And I was reaching burn out so that kind of has be right where you can like take a back seat where you can actually not go out more or you can actually work less and achieve more. Where you can actually not go out as much, get more phone numbers and get more dates and get more success.
And I was telling him the story and he laugh at me saying, “Alex.” You know, “How did you do it?” Well, I want to show you how I did that and by the way I’m not making any money here. This is a free video. I don’t want your money. I’m not trying to sell anything. I’m going to show you exactly what I did and how I got more dates and how I got more phone numbers when I wasn’t even going. When I was actually sleeping I would have woman trying to contact me.
And about what I used is cool metaphor. I said, well my friends name is Mike and I said, “Mike.” Let’s take for example, I mean my home office right now as you can see here, this is my home office. It isn’t much to look at. It’s kind of messy and I don’t really spend much time here. I’m actually more out in the streets in the day time. You know, practicing what I preach. And let’s say for example someone walked in my office right now and say, you know, a hotdog vendor for example had his little cart. Walked into my office and said, “Hotdogs, hotdogs, hotdogs for sale.” He wouldn’t really have a very smart marketing plan together, would he? Because I’m the only person here, I don’t eat hotdogs, I wouldn’t buy his hotdog and quite frankly, he wouldn’t make money. If however, he wheeled that same cart in my club and stood outside at 3o’clock in the morning where always drunk people came out, he would make a lot of money. And even there is might be cockroaches like five or six cockroaches crawling over the cart; he would still make money because he is positioning himself in a way where people just come to him and its less effort. Now, I’m going to show you how to actually work less and get more dates and get more phone, how you can cut down your time on going out and actually get more success; more dating success with women.
Basically, I want to share with you a very quick website. It’s called Elance.com. So it’s spelled as E-L-A-N-C-E. It looks a bit like this. And I want to show you this website because I was actually using this when I was around eighteen years old at a university or college. I was broke, I couldn’t make ends meet and I didn’t have much money. And basically, I was strapped for cash but I found out about this website and I logged online. And his is where you can find freelancers or people who would do virtual work for you online for little or no money, the basic. Yeah, like it might cost you four dollars US per hour to hire somebody out to do virtual work for you. And by the way, you have to have a computer otherwise you wouldn’t be watching this. You are already half way there to getting more success.
Now, the next step is the first step is number one, you go to Elance.com. E-L-A-N-C-E.com. You may want to write this down because you need to know this. The second step is you want to join as many free online dating services as possible. Plentyoffish.com, I’ve used that. I’ve used match.com. I’ve used RSVP. There’s so many websites out there and even though you might be successful right now, you might be going out; you might be getting dates, getting phone numbers, you might think, “Well, Alex I don’t really to be on online dating.” You cannot be further from the truth. It cannot hurt to have online dating. And even though you are successful getting dates, basically you’re here to learn the skill. You’re here to get as many, as much involvement with women as possible, get as much experience with them. So, finally, you know, when you do see your absolute “the one” walking down the street, you can walk after with confidence and you’ve had the experience of so many dates in the past and you can get her and have her as girlfriend, settle down or whatever your goals are.
Basically you want as much experience as possible; this is how you do it. Even if though I was getting dates, I was getting phone numbers when I was eighteen and nineteen. I’m not saying this to impress you. I’m saying that even though I was getting success, I still join these online dating services because they helped immensely. And I’ll show you how in just a second.
So basically, first step, go to Elance.com. Second step, you want to join up RSVP.com. Plentyoffish.com. Match.com as many of these online-dating services as possible. Some are free, some are you’re going to pay for it. Basically, you get your virtual assistance. Step 3 is you give him a standard text message or a standard set of message-to-message girls on a system of basis. So basically, I had the time; I was living in Bondi Beach. And Bondi Beach is a gigantic place. There are so many women there. And I said to him, I would like you to contact everybody in Bondi Beach between the ages of eighteen. Every female between the ages of eighteen and twenty one and they have to be pretty. Make your own judgment. I want you to contact them. Message them with this special specific e-mail message. So they send that. And it was cocky, funny it was some bent line in there. I was teasing her a little bit. And if they replied back, I wan you to reply with this text message. I basically gave him two standard e-mail messages to send off. And if they replied back, he will send another one.
So basically, when I was going out, getting fun and missing the day during the nights, during the nighttime, when I was sleeping, I had women. I had someone else contacting these girls for me. Excuse me. And I was getting e-mails back. I was getting e-mails back. I was getting all these people contacting me. And I was even doing any work. It was fantastic. And I’m sharing this with you on the spur of the moment because I know this will help you. My friend says, “Alex, you have to tell these people how this has helped you because hey will get massive gains, massive value and benefit from this. So give this a try, let me know how it goes. Basically, go to Elance hire virtual assistant. Jump online. Even pay for it. Just give it a try for a month. Go to plentyoffish.com that is a free online dating service. There are tens and thousands women signing up everyday. Give them two text messages. Sorry, two email messages to message them off. And I think my virtual assistant contacted out of 12,000, I think he contacted around 5,000 over around four months. And I had chock-block full of e-mails. I didn’t have the time in the world to answer these e-mails. I answered few of them. I got a few dates with them, but I was basically more selective because I had so much more choice. I’m not saying this to impress you, I’m saying is this will help you immensely even though you might have a negative 7:59 about online dating and think that, “It’s not going to work for me.” At least give it a try. It has done a massive benefit for me, my friends and hopefully it will to you as well.
My name is Alex from SucceedAtDating.com. I hope you have enjoyed this video. If you want to check out more, check out SucceedAtDating.com. We’ve got freer pick-up videos there. I hope this works out for you.
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