Jennifer: One of the biggest mistakes that I have seen men making is when they contact a woman and they immediately want to know her phone number, where she lives, where she works. Don’t do that and stalk her to the extreme. So give it some time and let her open it up and go ask her some very casual nice questions that you know, save the more serious questions and phone number information or she would just offer her phone number to you. So, don’t push it, just sit back and communicate for a little while. Let her get comfortable.
Dan: You are building a relationship. Do you ever see two dogs come up to each other? They like to sniff, they walk around, do a little growling and eventually they will warm up. We like to think we are all that much better but guess what, we are not, okay. So, you got to let her warm up otherwise she is going to think you are a stalker, you are weird, otherwise, whatever, you are not getting a message back. So, don’t ask for her phone number, don’t ask for e-mail address, just play it cool, little small talk and let her warm up. You know, a little sniffing and you will be fine. Making sexual quotes, Hey you are hot, nice breasts. Delete.
Jennifer: You are really hot.
Dan: Delete.
Jennifer: You are cute.
Dan: Delete. What do you think every other guy told her today who got deleted? Yes, you just got deleted too. No good. A lot of girls will upload what they think guys want to see is a really hot photo. But they upload that just because they think that is the only way they are going to get attention. They will think a lot of sexual…that is a bit hypocritical but nevertheless it does not really matter worth a damn. You want to answer back, right? So, be cool. Be real, do the sniffing thing, let her warm up to you.
Jennifer: Yes. This is at a conversation we had earlier today about you know, women get boob jobs because they want their breasts to be all out there. But if you are a man, you are not suppose to look and you are not suppose to talk about it. So, it is the same kind of thing and for a girl uploads a really sexy photo it does not mean she is easy and it doesn’t mean she wants a comment on her breast. It just means that she wants attention, when she has got that, be nice and go slow.
Dan: Of course later on, you have to like her breast and talk about that or she will think you don’t like her, then that is a different show.
Jennifer: Take a few minutes right now to go to AskDanAndJennifer.com. While you are there, check in our latest articles and videos and ask us your biggest questions about dating, relationship, love, or sex. Do it now before you forget. www.AskDanAndJennifer.com See you there.
Transcription by:
Scribe4you Transcription Services