Orgasm Help! Unhappy Girl Can't Feel It Anymore

[Music Playing] Jennifer: Hi, this question is from Michael in Florida, dear Dan and Jennifer, I was married for 11 and a half years and the sex was good, then I divorced and re married. Well my husband now and I were dating, our sex was amazing, I never knew a woman could have an orgasm like that, lucky girl. I would drench him in the sheet by just having regular sex with no stimulation on the clitoris. Dan: Damn girl. Jennifer: We have been married for two years now and for the last year, I am not able to be stimulated inside anymore. I fell his penis in me but it does not get stimulated. I asked my doctor and he just says to stimulate my clitoris, well, I do not have to do that all the time, I want to feel the stimulus in my vagina again. Why has this happened? What went wrong? Please help. Dan: That is rough. [Music Playing] Jennifer: Wow, okay, this is a technical question and we are not doctors but you know what, I think a lot of women have this question so we are going to give our version of an answer. But basically ___1:25 can contribute to lost of sensitivity. The biggest one I think in my one not medical opinion is just lost of muscle tone in that area and it just going to comes naturally age and with sex even, so my two sense girl to girl is try ___1:42 exercises or do some research on line because I am sure there is lots of tools out there that exercise those muscles in help improve sensitivity. Dan: In another idea here, call a sex therapist, somebody who is really focused on getting your sex life back on track. Jennifer: ___2:00 just trying to fix her goal, yes. Dan: Yes exactly, or a doctor is try to fix a mechanical issue, because he is a sex therapist about this. Jennifer: Yes, and definitely have a lot better ideas and just recognize that you are not 17 anymore, I am not saying you are old, I am not saying sex is always going to be bad. Dan: But you are not 17. Jennifer: Yes, you are not 17 anymore so you may have to change the way you do things okay? Maybe when you were 17 you did not have to have any kind of external stimulation but now you do, so do not worry, it is okay.