Hi, this is Alex Colson from SucceedAtDating.com. Welcome back to another hidden camera video pickup. This pickup is actually quite special. It is done down—always the bar down in Circle King in Sydney and I saw these two girls sitting by themselves. I thought I would walk up, start a conversation, go a little direct to say that I do point out who the girl is that I am interested in, and you will see what happens. Enjoy.
Alex: Hey guys! I know it sounds a little bit random, I just noticed you guys sitting here by yourself, no guys, what is the story behind that? What is going on?
Female: We are just catching up.
Alex: Oh, really?
Female: We have not seen each other for a while, yes.
Alex: I really can’t stay long, I am going to meet a friend to have coffee. I’m surprised! It’s Valentine’s Day. It’s Valentine’s Day a few days ago and there are no guys, two attractive girls—I mean, there has got to be a reason.
Female: We are single but—
Alex: Oh, really?
Female: Yes.
Alex: Is it the unlucky love excuse? Is that it?
Female: Yes.
Alex: That is love by the way. Wasn’t it?
Female: No.
Alex: Good. I don’t know, it is just, you think about it. There is a man on the city at the moment.
Female: Yes, I heard that actually.
Alex: Yes, if you are 30 and above, there is on TV the other day in sunrise. If you are 30 and above.
Female: If we are 30 and above?
Alex: If you are 30 and above.
Female: Do you think we are 30 and above?
Alex: Actually not.
Female: Okay.
Alex: You guys are way below at 30. If you are, you got as much tense of finding a guy as an 80 year-old.
Female: So are you telling us it is hard?
Alex: I am trying—five or ten years time, you come calling back to me and thinking, Alex, what do we listen to you men? Why do we listen to you?
Female: So your name is Alex?
Alex: My name is Alex.
Female: My name is Abeyda
Alex: Abeyda
Female: Nice to meet you Alex
Alex: Good meeting you and
Female: Karen
Alex: Karen—do you guys have big names?
Female: No
Alex: Karen, because you look very friendly and I would say your smuggles name is beautiful
Female: Really?
Alex: Do you want to smuggle something?
Female: No.
Female: Actually, if you study body language—it is actually just a rejection.
Alex: Oh really?
Okay. So I will just stop the tape there for a second. What I just did then is I opened very directly you know, two girls sitting by themselves what is the story. You know, no guys—are you guys unlucky in love or something and that was love as well. And that was fun. I made fun of them a little bit. I tease them. This creates attraction, it is basically floating. It is all about teasing but in the playful ways. If you do it the small, you can basically say anything.
I tease them, I noticed the friend, there was a friend there that was a bit—with grumpy pants and I basically, I have to be friendly to her. If I ignore her and just talk to the attractive one in the middle then she is going to give me a lot more resistance and she is going to tell me to go away. It does happens sometimes. It does not happen all the time but it does happen. So basically you just have to be friendly with the girl that is giving you any mystery for attitude.
So she had her arms close like this and I said you look as how want—I am going to nickname you snuggles because you look like you want to snuggle something. And basically if you study body language, this is actually a rejection. So she has attitude but it is all good and I got on them first. So let us watch a little bit more and I will share three tips with you in just a second.
It was Valentines Day but they say Valentines Day is the way to genuinely meet somebody because you meet somebody in a bar or a club within the day and usually even with a lack of somebody, let it go and start something to a guy. They guy likes her—they want to exchange numbers or just put up token resistance like go after the boyfriend even though they do not have really a boyfriend.
Female: Because you say you can see whether someone is attached on Valentines Day.
Alex: In Valentines Da
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