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Today’s Question:
How Can I Be a Family Man and Great Lover?
Jennifer: Hi, this question is from Steve in Missouri.
Dear Dan and Jennifer: My wife and I have been married for seven years. We have a four year old son and two year old twins. Money is kind of issue due to the fact that we are single income family and I also work at nights. How can I be romantic and achieve a romantic sex life that not neglect our kids in responsibilities as parents. Thanks curiously, Steven.
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Jennifer: You sound really nice.
Dan: Yes, so cool. And, it is a problem of a lot of parents are having. And, they worked wiped out, tired, barely naked in the bed at night. And, where were our relationship go.
Jennifer: But my wife go.
Dan: Yes, where my wife go? Moms busy. Okay, should your wife before she was the kids mom. You know, put your wife first. Remember her? So, many people get married and the thing marriage is not a popping out kids.
Jennifer: And responsibility and stuff in the house and the job.
Dan: Yes, you can a responsibility in your way all to be a single again and miserable. You know, and supporting those kids that you cannot busy anymore. And remember that person you wanted to be with.
Jennifer: Yes, I mean honestly, your biggest responsibility as parents. Husband and wife, mom and dad is to love your children and provide a stable home. And, you cannot do that if you forget about your wife, and neglected relationship and you get divorced and where does that put you. So, got to remember each other first, and I know it sound harsh but your kids come second. What they need to know is that you love them and for you both to be there.
Dan: Yes, and they are not going to both there if they neglect their relationship.
Jennifer: Yes, so what can you do? How can you stay romantic? What can we do?
Dan: Well, what did you do in the beginning? Have you ever date? No, really we need together. Did you have ever date, did you go to a movie, did you have fun? Okay, start doing that again, now.
Jennifer: Yes, buy her flowers. Pretend like you are dating. Not married, not parents, all that good stuff. You will get baby soon, I think they those in the afternoon too.
Dan: Maybe after you are married.
Jennifer: Maybe!
Dan: Wow.
Jennifer: Go to a movie, little things to show her that you care about her I do not know. Maybe it is flowers, whatever she likes you know, that she like flower, does she like you to bring her coffee, does she like you to tell her I love you.
Dan: What did you do before, really? What did she like about you before? What did you do special for each other before you had kids, responsibility, before you had this house for, and all of that something you take care off.
Jennifer: Yes, how did you win her heart in the first place? Those you did things, you need to be doing now.
Dan: Yes.
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