Sex Too Soon?

[Music Playing] Jennifer: Hi, this question is from Michael in Florida. Dear Dan and Jennifer: I was married for 11 and a half years and the sex was good, then I divorced and re married. Well my husband now and I were dating, our sex was amazing, I never knew a woman could have an orgasm like that. Lucky girl! I would drench him in the sheet by just having regular sex with no stimulation of the clitoris. Dan: Damn girl! Jennifer: We have been married for two years now and for the last year, I am not able to be stimulated inside anymore. I feel his penis in me but it does not get stimulated. I asked my doctor and he just says to stimulate my clitoris. Well, I do not have to do that all the time, I want to feel the stimulus in my vagina again. Why has this happened? What went wrong? Please help. Dan: That is rough. [Music Playing] Jennifer: Wow, okay, this is a technical question and we are not doctors. But you know what? I think a lot of women have this question so we are going to give our version of an answer. But basically, mini factors can contribute, you know lost of sensitivity. The biggest one I think in my none medical opinion is just lost of muscle tone in that area and it just going to comes naturally with age and with sex even. So my two sense girl to girl is try keggle exercises or do some research on line because I am sure there is lots of tools out there that exercise those muscles in help improve sensitivity. Dan: And another idea here, go see a sex therapist, somebody who is really focused on getting your sex life back on track. Jennifer: not the doctor who sent to fix the goal, yes. Dan: Yes exactly, we are not doctors. Try to fix some mechanical issue. Go see a sex therapist about this. Jennifer: Yes definitely, have a lot better ideas and just recognize that you are not 17 anymore, I am not saying you are old, I am not saying sex is always going to be bad. Dan: But you are not 17. Jennifer: Yes, you are not 17 anymore so you may have to change the way you do things okay? Maybe when you were 17 you did not have to have any kind of external stimulation but now you do. So, get over it. It is okay.