Hi! This is Francisco Bujan from vitalcoaching.com and we are talking about anything successful, men this time.
The topic for this video is she is always surrounded by her friends. Imagine that you are, you know, somewhere in High School or and you are a guy, and you like this girl, and you wonder how to interact with her is she is always surrounded by her friends. It might be a bit puzzling.
In terms of, you know, letting skills this is called “open in sec”. It means that, you want to interact with the whole group rather than just one person and the good way to that is what we call “opinion openers”.
You can go to the group and ask him a question to all of them and you know, without focusing on one specific girl and simply, you know, say something that; You hear about this party going on Saturday? You heard any information of when is happening? Where is happening? Or you know, some things that concerns.
For instance movies, you know, have you seen that movie, what do you think about that? And you do not speak with just one girl. It is very important when you approach a group or set that you realize that you are dealing with a dynamic software or a whole group of people. So, that will be a way to go.
Another thing that is quite important is do not forget to ready on your target or the girl that you really like. Instead, focus on another girl and start talking with this one, you know. One girl that you are not to challenge by, you know eventually. And you notice that is on the girl who you are attracted too.
Especially, if she is try to be a leader of these group of girls. She will kind of be triggered and wonder, why is it he is talking to me directly? Why is it that he talks with another girl who is not the leader of this specific group. But you will see that approaching, that girl instead of your target will make it a bit easier and a little bit less challenging in this situation.
Now, once you start talking with her and you notice that she is interested, you can turn to her and eventually engaged into a conversation with her as well. But the time that you have arrive and you know, engaged into a conversation with an opinion opener. It shows that you are not that actually directly into interested in dating or flirting with one specific girl and this makes it a little bit easier for the group of girls to approach.
If you want as well, you can always check for a moment where is she going to back to herself. This is going to make a bit easier to approach her as well. But I would say that learning how to open a assertive is one of the keys skills that you will have to use in social situations and it is a great way to simply how to that. if you are interested in this situation. Take for now and have a great day. Bye, bye
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