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Jennifer: Hi! This question is from Ali in California.
Dear Dan and Jennifer:
I have got into the habit of watching pornography to help me orgasm whether it is masturbating or having my boyfriend go down on me. I used to be able to have an orgasm without porn but now I am dependent on it.
I do not think my boyfriend minds this much but this is the new scent. How can I ease this habit? Ali.
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Dan: Wow! That is a new twist! Impression that heals of the last one we had about help, my husband addicted to porn and I am about to leave him.
Jennifer: Yes. Now, we have a girl watching porn. That is great though there is nothing wrong with that.
Dan: Absolutely not.
Jennifer: The question we have it is really easy because with porn, you can just watch it. You can sit there and watch it and get excited. You do not have to do with anything.
Dan: Just keep it hold it warm a time between the two if we know seductions know.
Jennifer: Yes. So our initial thought on this was maybe it is kind of the lazy way out, I hate to say that but maybe it just.
Dan: You just think that I getting comfortable and stop trying you know that is not a good thing by the way.
Jennifer: Correct. So we want to ask you a couple of questions and maybe we can help you solve this problem on your own.
It not something I cannot give you a magic pill, there is not one. But you know basically what is it about watching porn that gets you excited? Is it the visual appeal? I mean this is something most women probably do not even think about that we have an orgasm are you a feeling person? Do you go by feelings? Or do you go by what you see? Do you fantasize I mean what is it that actually you know how to get off?
Then, we think about those things and then try to figure out what it is about watching porn that applies to that and maybe you can apply those things to your sex life.
Dan: And are you watching something specific that really get you off? Where in there is that something you guys could be doing together. I mean you should maybe just extending the intimacy and the seduction time will really help anyway around.
Jennifer: Yes. Maybe a little more, more actual warm up time just make sure you are not using that as a substitute and I just think start turn it off, okay. If you are addicted to it and you recognize that you cannot do without that, then make it go away and start trying things in experimenting until you actually find something that works without that.
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