Jennifer: Okay, this is from Sarah in California --
Dan: And if I could just say, if you guys want to ask us question, any question, dating, love, sex anything, there is a link at the top of our YouTube profile, and probably the quickest way you go to our website, askdanandjennifer.com, and at the top there is link to out forums. It's the huge community we started, and you can ask any questions whatsoever, it's a very, very supportive community, we will see your questions, our panel of experts and --
Jennifer: And then ever growing number of people, who truly want to help, okay, positive and supportive, no haters --
Dan: Yeah --
Jennifer: Okay, Sarah, back to Sarah's questions, should you date an older man? Dear Dan and Jennifer, I am an 18-and-a-half year old female who is considering heightening my age limit for dating, and having sex with men 28 or 29. I am very mature and intellectual. I recently joined an online dating site, and several very nice well educated and well endowed men who are ten years older than me have messaged me.
Dan: What do you say about guys who are sending pictures of their penis online, and what is the deal?
Jennifer: Oh guys, we used to have a dating site, and I have never seen so many penises in my life, after a while they all start to look the same --
Dan: Because we got, we were proving all these pictures, and ah, it's kind of we are working for a while --
Jennifer: Anyway, should I talk to them or not, is a 10 year age gap when you are 18, something to avoid or can it be okay?
Dan: The 10 year age gap when you are 18 is more than half your life, and so this is just a time perspective, and me always have liked the older women, its just my deal, but, boy, you know, technically age doesn't matter, age is and number that a large part does not matter -
Jennifer: And older you get the less it matters, right?
Dan: Yeah the older you are less it matters, but sometimes you can have a significant difference where you are twice this person's age, that's a lot more life experience, and unless you are real slow by learning step, you are going to be on a very different intellectual in experiential plain than this other person.
Jennifer: And this sounds like, here is my questions, it's sounds like she may just be looking for a casual relationship, otherwise what does -- how well endowed that have to do with anything.
Dan: I think she feels that, and by the way the p-p is really big --
Jennifer: So that's a whole another question, right, if you are just looking for a casual relationship, it's a different deal.
Dan: Hey, whatever you know-
Jennifer: A long term relationship, there is a difference in level of maturity and life experience, because when you are 18, you have only had your freedom to experience your life for very short time.
Dan: If you live with your parents, you may still live with your parents, under your parents' roof you have never experience supporting yourself, maybe half or about a year now.
Jennifer: Then these guys have probably been to collage, they have had careers --
Dan: They may have changed careers two or three times --
Jennifer: They maybe even married, they may have kids, I mean there is -
Dan: Nothing is wrong, but it's a world of difference as far as experience-
Jennifer: And so you have to be really mature I think, but having said that, I think guys mature a lot more slowly than girls. So I think an 18 year old girl having a 28 year old guy is probably more realistic than an 18 year old guy dating an 28 year old women, unless there is a strong sexual thing there.
Dan: Or the younger man who is very mature?
Jennifer: Well, the younger man could be very mature?
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