Should I Give My Cheating Man Another Chance?

[Music Playing] Jennifer: Oh boy, see the headline, cheating man gets caught and still denies it. Dan: You are lucky it was not me. Jennifer: Okay, this is from Mariah in Massachusetts: Dear Dan and Jennifer, I have had a feeling my boyfriend was cheating on me. I have caught him in multiple lies about where does he was, why it was taking him hours to get home from work, where his money was going, in the end, through checking his voicemail and email, I found out that he was, in fact cheating. And this is where it gets interesting. He still insists that never happened. I am willing to give him one more chance, if and only if he comes clean and is completely honest with me. And I am foolish to think that our relationship can be saved. [Music Playing] Jennifer: What does that mean – Dan: So you show him the stop, the right way to stop, and said, “No, I did not do it, it was not me. He just looked like me. It was not me.” Jennifer: Look like me, talk like me, what me? Dan: We all screw up. We are human, we are all here to learn, to grow, to experience whatever and we all screw up. It is part of being human. We all do it. And if you are lucky, the person that was impacted by your screwing up will say, “Hey you know what, it is okay. We will try this again.” But half that – if they go on is a sort of owning it and say, “You know I screwed up and I will be a man here and I will tell you now, I screwed up, I am sorry, I did that.” Lying is low. Jennifer; It is low. And here is a question I have for you. Are you willing to hear the truth? Are you willing to accept the truth? Okay, or if he tells you the truth, are you going to attack him, right? So, keep that in mind. Are you really sure you want to hear the truth or you are just looking for a reason to jump all over?