The Pregnancy Show - Pregnant and Lonely, Part 2

Kendall: We are back as Andrea as you know her husband refuses to stay home with her at night, she is pregnant and -- Nina: And she is all upset about it. Kendall: Who said it? Nina: She is saying while she has to makeup all these great idea and I think it is great, it is romantic. Why not? Kendall: It is romantic if you were dating a 7 year old. Nina: Why not to make the husband excited to come home to see you. To cool my friend Carman when I was giving birth. Kendall: Okay, because I like to think I married a grown up. I don't know, Nina: I know, I know but you got to keep the marriage happening. Kendall: I accept that, play tennis. Nina: And I think that it is nice and all the Hollywood stars that say, that they have great marriages and so on and they are bending all these people they say, and John Travolta with his wife Kelly Preston they say the thing that they keep the marriage alive by making it interesting because when it becomes humdrum and you stay home and if you have other kids at home you do homework every time. The guy comes home from work and the same scenario every night plays out, he gets tired out it. He needs to have something to look forward to and I know my husband that is where I differ from you. My husband loves to surprise me and plan these things, like he will buy me a gift and he will put six gifts into a little box and into a huge box and I open up each one and it is tickets for a Broadway Show and it is a wonderful thing. Kendall: You are missing a point; her husband goes out every night. If she won't-- Nina: No that wasn't, I threw that one away. This is Andrea, no, no. Kendall: Her husband is out every night. The other -- Nina: No, that one, the second one. Kendall: You want to make sure your husband once in a while okay. Nina: I think it is quite -- he could surprise her too. I think he can just surprise -- Kendall: Exactly. Nina: There is two ways, do we agree? Kendall: We have some common ground, we have a place to go forward. What's the next question? Nina: We have Angela, Angela says, there must be something about men that they must think women can go out while pregnant. [Crosstalk] Kendall: Go ahead, go ahead. Nina: Okay while the volcano is growing, I am going to quickly say at the end of this. Okay, is to try to give him ideas or where or what you can do. You are not going to like this. I don't like to be home alone, and now I am more emotional than before when it comes to watching sad news on TV. So she wants her husband to think -- she wants to get out, I think what she is trying to say that she wants to get out also because she gets more emotional when she is pregnant and the husband thinks that she should stay home and shouldn't go out with friends. Kendall: That is so kind -- Nina: That's lame. Kendall: What happened to him? Listen jerk you wanted a baby, we are having a baby, we are in this together theoretically for the long term. Wherever you go, whatever you do, we are going to do it together. Why is it -- Oh! She is pregnant, what a couple, you know what reminds me off? Kendall: This is a natural thing for the buddy to go out and -- Nina: What was that show soap opera? Kendall: Oh, you watched that? Nina: No, I just saw it once and they are getting married and the night before they are getting married that the groom is in bed having a last fling with another woman. Kendall: Oh Man! Not good. Nina: If you need a last fling the night before you get married you are not ready to get married. If you need to go out every night while your wife is pregnant you make a major mistake. I hope you fit it before it is too late you jerk. Kendall: Oh Lord! Nina: I am angry. Nina: Kendall I think that Angela is saying that her husband doesn't think she should go out, she feels she has to get out. Kendall: She is just a -- Nina: Who is he to think _ her what to do she is her own human being. He is not the boss of her like my -- you are not the boss of me, so he is not the boss of her. They have to have a kind of relationship -- Kendall: That is the most - Nina: Yeah that is bizarre. I don't like this. Kendall: What you call it, talking down - I can't think of the word. Nina: She should have to ask him permission to go out; she chooses to go out -- Kendall: He thinks he can stay home. He thinks she should probably tidy up a little more. Nina: Angela we are standing with you. Go out honey, kick up your heels and do whatever you got to do to make you feel happy and good luck. We will be right back.