The Pros and Cons of Taking Revenge on Your Ex

Allison Castillo: Sure we all have revenge fantasies and my boiling a bunion a pot may really drive your point home. It requires a lot of planning and you even have to learn to cook. So when considering moving to fantasy into reality, it’s important to ask if revenge is really worth it. As reported by yourtango, Noel took revenge on your hometown boyfriend whose charm extended far beyond the confines of the relationship by inviting him over to stargaze while her best friend egged his sports car. Although she claims she probably wouldn’t do it again, she feels that inspite the hours he spent scrubbing egg off his dashboard, were a fair trade for the hour she spent crying over him. According to psychotherapist, Jonathan Alpert, the reasons people seek revenge on their Exes include getting even, proving a point, teaching a lesson, having the last word and maintaining a presence in the other persons life in unhealthy way by manipulating or controlling an Ex following the relationship. Because I’m exhausted just saying that, I vote not worth it. Personally, my revenge fantasies tend to center around throwing shoes at my Exes head but if there’s one thing I’ve learned, is that a lady never throws Prada. It’s not worth loosing as heel over a heel.

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