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Female: Sex, what are men and women really looking for. Here are some expert insights.
Male: The word sex can bring powerful images to mind. But what your first thought might be of scarcity clad model or George Clooney human sexuality was once deeper in the superficial appreciation of beauty. Evolutionary psychology can provide real insight into how both men and women approach sex.
Well, a conscious desire for sex seems to be governed where physical attraction to others are emotions and are fears. We all have a fundamental drive to reproduce that silently influences what we find attractive, how we feel, and what we fear.
Each genders approach to sex is influenced by the relative scarcity of the reproductive materials. While males have an almost limitless number of sperm, females have relatively few eggs so women typically put a higher price on the reproductive materials.
Given this, the unique strategies that males and females imply to maximize reproductive fitness. For example, men are almost invariably more formicarius than women this is because the most reproductively fit man wants to get as many females pregnant as possible.
For the same reason men are instinctively attracted to traits that indicate health and fertility like glossy hair, shiny eyes and the classic hourglass figure. In fact, in many widely different cultures, the ideal female body is the same, one with the waist is 71% of the size of the hips.
Women have a different evolutionary imperative. The physical tall of child bearing combined with the relative scarcity of eggs elevates the survival of each child to paramount importance. A woman therefore once in mate would invest in her and in her child. the type of men that a woman is drawn to changes depending on how likely she is to reproduce.
When ovulating women tend to be more attractive to solid types capable of caring for off spring. But when women are not ovulating they go for more good looking cutie pie type of man with less concern about character. There is also an evolutionary basis for common relationship fears.
A man naturally fears cock holding which is when his wife bears someone else’s child. Woman commonly fear that their mate might leave which is related to the evolutionary reality that this would undermine future propagation and impair their children’s chance of success.
Also surprisingly, many activities like physical fighting maybe indirect passes of sexual behavior. Males fight other males to become dominant, and dominant males get their chicks. Sex is a fascinating topic, the attractions and emotions, which guide us in our sexual choices, are often our body’s way of communicating a basic evolutionary drive. So the next time you feel attracted to someone ask yourself what your body is really saying.
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