Tamsen: Hey everybody, Matt and Tamsen here, okay your question today, what are the signs that his going to break up with me?
Matt: I know this is a tough question and honestly when a woman doesn’t know what's really going on, if she can get some signs kind of giving it to you, you’ll feel a lot better. Number one, the guy stops wanting to be physically intimate, he just isn’t interested in sex anymore and he—you know its very surprising for a lot of woman but that’s definitely a sign.
Tamsen: Yes absolutely and also not spending a lot of time together, all of sudden his heading to his friends making excuses you know coming home late from work, not being available on his phone and all those other signs.
Matt: Also being guilty because he has interest in another woman and then his accusing you of you know wondering on or being with another guy. Guilt is a big sign.
Tamsen: Yes, even if its not necessarily with another woman he starts with moving your relationship more into the front category which is always terrible and that just sort of means you know his in there watching movies not making an effort to maybe do something romantic.
Matt: I also have another one, he also doesn’t want to spend a lot of private time with you. He has his friends around all the time and he comes like Tamsen is saying, a lot more friendship oriented, his trying to reverse the concept of the relationship into how it was when you guys first met.
Tamsen: And just probably the biggest ones and the last one, his not acknowledging this bit of cage, it’s like the birthday of valentines day and—
Matt: His getting lazy, he just doesn’t care so much you know but look, there's another guy out there for you. Don’t let this guy make you feel terrible. If his going to break up with you, he doesn’t want to be with you, so you know what move on, somebody will definitely does.
Tamsen: Absolutely, this is Matt and Tamsen, we’re here to answer your questions about love, dating, relationships, whatever, send them our way.
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