Male: Do you and you partner argue all the time? Ever consider simply rearranging your furniture, Feng Shui practitioner, Kartar Diamond offer some different insights about sources of conflict in a relationship.
Kartar Diamond: Well, when someone approaches me and says I am having marriage problems or relationship problems, they know that I have a certain angle and a certain way of addressing the problem. Another therapist that is an example that I want to see the real mechanics of what is going on in their environment, so, I would investigate in what house type is this according to Feng Shui criteria.
Is it one that is generally good or bad for people, I would want to investigate the floor plan it self as an example, nothing competes with the background, people spend about a third their wife sleeping in there bedroom. So, if there are going to be relationship problems that might easily be a negative area of the house and there could be some really physical features of the house that might cause relationship problems that you know, assuming the couple is living together.
And then there are the things that are lease obvious. A real simple Feng Shui principle is that you should sleep under flat ceilings and typically if a couple is sleeping with a big giant exposed bin covering over bed, that alone energetically can make a couple feel very devised. So, I might be suggesting that the bed be moved out from under the bin if there is a room enough to do that or I might be suggesting a canopy bed with fabric on it that will deflect the energy back upwards so that we do not have a guillotine kind of effect going on, separating the couple as they sleep.
So, I look at the real physical features of the space that people spend a lot of time in the bedroom, the entrance, the home office and really the whole house and I make this real physical recommendation to improve the energy and then by definition, the relationship is going to improve. Every single household has energy associate with depression, loneliness, and alienation and if that energy happens to fall in your bathroom no, no big deal.
Because you do not spend that much time there and the base on your floor plan that energy falls in your bedroom it is going to be undermine a relationship.
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