We Don't Have Enough Sex! Is Swinging The Answer?

[Music Playing] AskDanAndJennifer.com Your Questions Answered on Dating, Relationships, Love and Sex! Today’s Question: We Do not Have Enough Sex Can I Swing Alone? Jennifer: This question is from Marcus in Spain. Dear Dan and Jennifer: I am an in a relationship. We get on very well but hardly ever have sex. I have swung in the past and really want to do more. Is it a good idea to try to involve her? She said that for her there has to be a particular attraction. If so, how should I do it? If not, is it a good idea to start to swing alone with the idea to drift apart. What’s Wrong with Wanting More Sex? Dan: Okay! Well, if you are going to not enough sex or really bad sex, it is really typically were promised start on a lot of relationships. You know, couple that plays together, stays together, right? Jennifer: Amen! Dan: Amen! Exactly! Whatever you do, if you going to try swinging of, do not do it alone. Really, it is a really bad idea. Is it sure it is hard to find—of course it is hard to find people that you are both attracted to but it is not totally hard it is more challenging to find in one person. But it is not worth it. You got to play together, very important. But if you do it alone, you are really opening up the door, you are drift apart and than to break out. Jennifer: Yes, I mean, it definitely. You know, she said, she needs a particular attraction and that is true. I mean, everybody is particular about a kind of person that they are sexually attracted to and you take four people, and you try to match up for him and you know how hard it is to find someone to date. Imagine trying to find two today, okay? It is hard. Dan: Yes. Jennifer: But it is definitely well worthy effort to do it together and to just be picky, it is okay. Find a couple that you both like. Dan: I am sorry. What is this shall we drift apart slowly business? I mean, really. You have to stay together, you like your relationship, if it is not good, you know. Ask your wife to part the balls back and break up, seriously. If you are not happy, do not just hope it goes away overtime. Jennifer: What a visual way to die. Dan: Yes, I am not kidding. Kill me slowly. Jennifer: Yes. Dan: Just do that, really. Jennifer: Just swing with her, or go away. Love is cannot have. Dan: Yes.