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Hi this is Dr. Diana Kirschner with Ask Your Tango answering your dating and relationship questions.
Today’s question is from Karen L, “My husband looks at other women a little too much. What should I do? My husband, we’re only one year married practically throws it neck out to look at other women. Sometimes we were out together. He spends the entire time staring at other women to the point of neglecting me. Am I being too sensitive or is he being a jerk.”
Well, my first question to you is, what are you wearing and how are you acting when you’re out with your husband? Are you wearing the same sweat shirt that you wore all day and your old jeans because you’re too tired to change? Are you sitting there like a long monologue and not making any conversation or are you flirting with him? Are you playing a little touchy feely under the table with your foot? Are you winking at him? What are you doing? Because if you’re not caring on with him like that his eye is going to straight to other women, if you’re not looking beautiful his eye will straight to other women.
Now I know that sounds pretty charge and you maybe a feminist and be offended and find that you’ve really take issue with what I’m saying, what I’m telling you is biology. You want to either ignore biology and pay the prize or acknowledge biology. Men are visual creatures, so you need to understand that and you need to work with that and create much more action in your marriage.
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