Hi, this is Dr. Diana Kirschner with ask Your Tango answering your dating and relationship questions. Today’s question is from Riina. Is it possible to be in love with two? I have fallen in love with two guys, and they both like me back. I don’t know what I should do.
Well, it’s entirely possible to be in love with two guys. It happens quite often and what I suggest you do is continue dating both of them. In fact, add a third because you know I really am into this dating program at three. No sex, just a little kissing, canoodling and what will happen is that you’ll see over time which one of these guys or maybe even a third guy turns out to be the one who fits you like a glove and this will give you time to really figure it all out.
Now I want you to do with integrity. You’re going to tell them on the second date, I’m having a great, great, great time with you. I really am having a fantastic time with you but I'm going to take things slower and will be seeing a few other people. And if the guy is really successful, he’s got self-esteem, he’ll want you more. He’ll want you more and he’ll hang in there and you’ll find out which one really is the one.
This is Dr. Diana Kirschner for your tango.com. Got a question? You want answer? Go to YourTango.com/questions.
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