What to buy a guy for his birthday - FOR WOMEN

Hi! This is Francisco Bujan from vitalcoaching.com. We are talking about dating success for women and the topic for this video is what to buy a guy for his birthday? This is a question that was posted in my channel again and it is an important one. Buying something for a friend or somebody you are interested in to is quite challenging. It can be his birthday, it can be Christmas it can be this kind of situations, this kind of occasion. So what does work best and what you guys prefer? Honestly I do not have all the answers for that one so I am going to ask guys who are watching the video, what would you like to receive for your birthday so that we can listen to your comments, read your comments and get some ideas. So I am going to give you as well some of my own opinions on what I think works really good.

Very often you will try to focus on giving a guy an object. It will be something that he can own. In my opinion what works better is to invite him for something, invite him for the movies, invite him for dinner at your place something like that, something which you is going to be flirty, romantics, sexy and something on that line. I think that these as far as I am concerned, it works better because it is interactive, because there is something having. It is not just an objects. Objects can be nice but honestly after a while you run out of ideas and you really wonder what is it that you could get a guy along that line. And most of the times nowadays, I mean guys will have pretty much what they need so finding a new tie or new-shirt or something he can wear or something he can have in his house very often, I do not think it is acceptable that quickly reminds.

Whereas, if you tale him to the movies or if you invite him to dinner at your place and cook something special for him or do something along that line with couple of friends for instance, this I think would work very well but again I do not have all the answers. Something else to be careful about is not to over do it. Especially if you just met a guy, if you are just talking to date, do not come with huge presents or something that shows that you want the world from him. Okay. This can be total warning it can be too much. So, do not buy him Rolex watch or something which is extremely expensive because when you do, you are most of the time is expecting something in return.

And when there is no grant that is going to stick around, imagine how you will feel if your date does not last and he ends up with wearing his nice Rolex watch on his next date with somebody else. Okay, this is true, this can happens so do not over do it. Invest yourself a little bit. Make a gesture that do not go all the way to doing something which is exceptional because if it does not work or if he does not respond that way you expect then you might be disappointed.

So again guys if you watching this video what would you like to get for your birthday? What will make you happy and if your girlfriend or wife or partner will have the chance of looking at your comments, maybe she will come out with the right gift again. Ask yourself what is it that you would like to receive for your birthday and please post your suggestions for women and yours comments to video. I am sure it will be very helpful. Okay, I hope you have wonderful day. Take care and bye-bye.


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