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Jennifer Hi, we are here with dating relationship coach tutorial Rogers. She is the author of the automatic second day and the founder of mantokeep.com
Now get this. Victoria was been more than a 100 first dates and about a year and a half time frame and more than 98 of those dates ask her on a second date
Dan: Wow!
Jennifer Yes that is incredible! And today, we are talking to Victoria not only that how to get that first date, but you know what you do and what you no do on that first date to guarantee a second date.
Jennifer Okay, so Victoria, we were talking in a previous segment about why it is important for the men to always pay on the first date? But what happens when you run into a situation where you are trying to be a good girl and let him pay on the first date but he just would not pick up the check, what do you do?
Dan: And the check is sitting there, it is sitting there. It is sitting down the table and he is looking at you, making a small talking. He is not making it go for it.
Victoria And it is so uncomfortable. I understand that this is an uncomfortable type of the day. But this is called, chess. This is stalemate. You are going to make him pay or he does not get to ever see you again.
And I am sorry. I am passionate about this. What you do is you simply excuse yourself to go to the bathroom, this is for the girls, and you excuse yourself to go to the bathroom. You go into the bathroom; I do not care what you are doing in there. But you are looking at your watch in five minutes, or going to go by.
Five minutes, and that is the entire alternative I know. But then you walk back, there if that check is still there, you steal it north, you can say, oh, we are going or whatever but unless he comes right out and says that you have to pay part of that check.
Then, and that is another issue. But he needs to pay it and if he does not, you are not going out with that boy again. I do not care why.
Jennifer And he is not just worth it.
Victoria He is not worthy
Dan: If you would not even pick it up on the first date
Victoria If he would not. Because if he is not picking up that check on the first date, then he is not interested in getting to know you, at all
Dan: So that is a symbolic thing that he is not really interested in investing a relationship with you.
Victoria At all! Your buddy, you are somebody he might be trying to have a gap with you. he might be just hanging out with you with nothing else to do but he is not caring enough about you to put part of his green on the table.
Jennifer Okay, this is a good one. So I am going to turn to you guys and ask, everybody who is watching this video, what do you think? Should he have to pay? On the first date or, should you just going to be pushed over and pay. What should you do?
So Victoria, let me ask you, where can we get the automatics on the second date?
Victoria If you want to learn more of these really great tips. It is www.mantokeep.com
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