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Rachel Greenwald: I have been part of a very unusual research project for the last 10 years. 90 percent of the time women guess incorrectly, why a guy didn't call her back. It's not that I want anyone to pretend to be someone they're not. What I do want is for you to be able to change his perception, so that he can see you for who you really are.
Beyond the number one reason, I told you the boss lady, there's the blows, the flasher, the Debbie Downer, the bitch in boots, the never ever my favorite example from the stereotype came from a New York woman. At one point they were talking about New York, she said I would never ever leave New York any kind of thought, if she's not geographically flexible, I'm not sure at this point in my life I can say, I am always going to want to live in New York and it was a deal breaker for him.
In a first impression, it's really important to share the positive things, because who wouldn't select a positive life partner instead of a negative life partner? I really appreciate you guys coming out tonight. Thank you, so much.
Female Speaker: I actually learned a lot, I was asking my friend which type I fall into and she said you're argumentative. I think on the first day out of nervousness I tend to come on a little strong and I think those three words she used thoughtful, kind and considerate those, you don't need to impress the guy, you don't need to challenge him.
Female Speaker1: I nearly like Debbie Downer advice.
Host: And what was that?
Female Speaker1: I think a lot of people in New York have negative attitudes about things and may be I do complain and don't even realize that just living here.
Female Speaker2: Men have an image of you, when they are initially interested, when they find out how independent you really are that kind of turns them on, because they kind of also want to feel like they are needed and wanted.
Female Speaker3: There are a lot of potential love connections in the room tonight and let me just say for the record that if there are any marriages that come out in the event tonight, I'm personally coming back for each and every wedding.
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