Hi, this is Francisco Bujan from vitalcoaching.com. We are talking about the cheating crisis for men. This means that your girlfriend or wife, they cheat on you and the topic for this video is why they cheat on me.
When you are in the cheating crisis, basically, this is one of the key questions that you are going to ask yourself, the reason why I am recording this video is because I’ve created an eBook, which is a short eBook about 30 pages. It will take you, you know probably around 30 minutes to read it and it’s available at vitalcoaching.com/cheatingformen.htm. I repeat, vitalcoaching.com/cheatingformen.htm, cheating for men is just in one word.
Now, if you are in a cheating crisis right now, it means that either your girlfriend or wife, they cheat on you, I encourage you to go and check this page straight away. Get the eBook, which is out there and it will save you lots of time and trouble. The reason why I did write this eBook is because I have been helping guys face this cheating challenge or this cheating crisis in the relationships in the couple and you know I designed a set of four strategies that you can use when this is happening, okay. So go back to the site, go back to vitalcoaching.com/cheatingformen.htm and get this eBook right now.
Okay, so what I’m going to give you here is just a slight preview, a little preview of what this is about and a couple of set of strategies that you can use in case you are in this situation yourself right now. So when you ask yourself, why did she cheat on me? Why did she betray me? Most of the time, the reason why it happens is simply because there is something in the relationship or in what you express together that is missing. Okay, I know that this is tough to hear. It is tough to get somebody tell you that but basically it’s the truth.
The reason that why she goes in and looks somewhere else it’s because of some form of passion thrill or excitement, something along that line is missing within the relationship. Okay, that’s one first thing to check out. What is it that you haven’t been expressing your relationship over the last few years? Check this out and maybe see what you can do along that line. That’s the first thing to understand.
The second thing to understand, it is that temptation, you know basically, being confronted or being—with the possibility of cheating or having an affair with another guy, when a woman is confronted with that and she feels sexual attraction, no matter how good the relationship might be, she likes to go ahead and take the step. Why? Because there is always some form of thrill or some form of excitement about the unknown. It’s a new experience and basically, she just wanted to go for it.
The third thing to understand, it is that we are programmed to procreate. I mean, nature has impact to those. It has really embedded in us a very high procreation drive. The sexual drive is very high inside of us and sometimes when faced with the possibility of just having you know, just having intercourse or sex, sometimes the mind goes blank and basically, the reasoning, the reason is not to do it simply disappear or stop existing.
So when your wife or girlfriend goes ahead and cheats on you, basically, there is this—you have to realize that nature is playing a role behind that. The procreation drive or the need for sex basically is there, very strong. Because nature decided to put this kind of you know, sexual gene or sexual drive inside of us basically to make sure that we keep on procreating and so that the human race doesn’t die out. Okay, so I know that this one maybe doesn’t help you right now you know, you think okay, well, you know what do I do with that but it’s important to understand that this procreation drive or this sexual drive is very deeply imprinted in us as something more of—on those behavior.
So the real question is what to do about it and this is why I want you to go back and get this eBook straight away. It’s vitalcoaching.com/cheatingformen.htm and what I do there is that I give you alternatives, possibilities. Do you have to break up with her on the spot or is there still a chance for your relationship. This is one of the key questions that you will ask yourself and another question that you can check is, do you want to take her back? Would you give her another chance if there was a good reason to do so.
So, go back to the site, vitalcoaching.com/cheatingformen.htm. It’s a short eBook. It will be like a 30 minutes read and it will save you lots of time and trouble. Okay, that’s it for now. Take care and bye-bye.
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