Why do you get attracted to a certain guy?
Hi, this is Francisco Bujan from vitalcoaching.com. Hope you are having a wonderful day and then I decided to record another video today and the topic for this video is why do you get attracted to a certain guy? So the question is for women and of course guys you will learn a lot by listening to their replies that are going to come on this video. The reason why I am putting this video is because recently I had a questions on how to attract wealthy men and there was a whole line up of answers coming from women who felts that it is quiet, it is not a good idea to focus on the guy because of his wealth, you want to focus on him because of character or because of his personality or because of his other aspects of his life but not his money.
So I can see that are there in a women have different opinions, so I open topics, so I want to ask you to open this, I want you to see if you have the time to tell us guys, what it is that makes you attracted to a certain guy and maybe it is just not one thing. It can be a too many kind of things but what is it? Is it character? Is it looks? Is it money has someone suggest it? Is it social status of the aspects of that person’s life? What is it exactly? And of course you know I had my own set of theories and possibly answer but this is just to start a discussion and an open sharing of ideas on this topic. Please be respectful of other people’s ideas before he is not here to convince actually to everybody but just all to have a conversation going on-on that.
The thing I want to say is that guys, specially pick up artist, there is a whole scene out there of men who really go after women who are into the pick up art and they have a whole set of strategies and theories on how attraction works, right? If you went to my sites, you would see that there is a program there, dating successful man, well, I am talking about that from the man’s prospective and what is really striking is that the theories and the ideas that men have about attraction and how attraction works very often, totally contradict to what women believe makes a woman attracted for instance. So there is two very different opinions of use on the topic of attraction that anyone if you are woman or if you are a guy and again, pick-up artist are there, the ones who are functions on that line. I am assuming, they come up with a set of theories that when women hear about that, that truly is the agreement, you really do not want guys to think that way, maybe they think it is not really that thing works the way it works, so I want to ask you open a need from a woman’s prospective, what is it that makes you attracted to a guy?
Please share in the comments, posting your responses on that and do not be ashamed to what attractions, we fix money just there to say it because actually it is one of the possible criteria, it is one of the possible elements that creates the man’ personality. You know the money, it is not just money, it tells a lot about the guy’s personality for instance, it tells about a lot about how it looks at himself, so our money is just one element but what are the other wants and if it is character or personality, what are really the character elements that makes you attracted today?. Once that if you have been dating a guy before if you have been in a long term relationship, what was the elements that made you really fall for a guy? I think this is an interesting topic and I would love to hear what you women have to say out there about that. Okay. Thanks for sharing, bye-bye.
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